Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 09:11

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

No country for ugly people…

Why do so many people like life?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

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BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Should I have left it alone and kept quiet? I came out as gay to my adult kids last week. Age 61 married 15 years, divorced for 20. I feel so guilty for ruining their lives by living a lie.